me and my house

bunko. only a game for the anal?

before i go any further, let me first clear this one thing up- i am indeed anal at heart. in the vein of being competitive natured, having a slight obsession with being "on time" to things (other than work), and i am generally specific in wanting things exactly as i want them (but who isnt?)

i raise this question, not because i dont enjoy the dice game, on the contrary. but because my attempts at gathering a group together to introduce them to bunko have failed. i know its not because the game isnt fun, because it really is, no matter how much that makes me sound like an old lady. i think bunko is too anal for my friends.

see... when we have girls night, we dont want rules. we want to show up whenever (of course as i've explained, i'll be on time), bring some wine, discuss anything under the sun, and just have a good time. we even have field trips sometimes! but what no one seems to be keen on is the idea of having and exact multiple of 4 people there...at a specific time...and find substitutes in their absence, etc.

and ya know what? i'm glad. i need more hands-free time in my life. more willy nilly. more go-with-the-flow.