okay all you moms of two out there- its advice time. i mean time for YOU to give ME advice. ;) i'd love comments on this one- how much baby wrangling do you do to keep your older babe a happy camper? sometimes lily is lining things up or setting her toys just so and hurricane eve comes through and throws it all into chaos.
type a lily has no idea what to do when this happens and generally freaks out. so do you:
a) say 'its okay if she wants to play with your toys with you.' and let eve wreck her fun, hoping lily will relax and go with it.
b) relocate or distract eve to allow lily to play in peace
c) start the day with libations in your coffee so these issues don't seem quite so dramatic ;)
d) none of the above. my children play delightfully together. sorry you drew the short stick.